Unconditional: with no conditions or limitations: complete or guaranteed, with no conditions, limitations, or provisos attached
Love: very strong affection: an intense feeling of tender affection and compassion
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Unconditional love, man, that is something I believe most people never receive in their lives. I am not one of those people. Not only have I experienced it in my life, I have had it shown to me by three different sources.
The first was my Mother. Here was a woman that had several children in her life and worked hard to do what she felt was best for all of them. But my older brothers and sisters would tell you, I was first in her heart. I could do no wrong in her eyes. Did I? Way to many times but she never looked at me as a bad boy when other tried to tell her I was. To be honest, today I would say it would be hard for me to think I was not a bad boy. But my mother saw something others didn’t. She knew deep down I was not a bad person and was a person that had a lot of love to give for others.
Shortly after she died I came to know a God of my understanding. This God showed me His love was even more unconditional than my mother’s. As after coming to know Him I cause more problems for others in my life than before knowing Him. But like my mother, He did not give up on me.
The third source is my current wife. Now I believe my first wife love me very much at one time but because of the hurt I cause her that love died. Over the years I would say “ I don’t think I could ever find another woman that would love me like my ex did for so long and put up with what she put up with.” I was wrong, thank God!
Over the past 21 years I have know my current wife I have done things to hurt her that you would think how could he love her and do this? I myself have wondered the same thing. But like my mother and God, she saw something others did not. That I was a person you could count on and one that would love you no matter what you might do to me.
I am so thankful to have experienced this kind of love and my hope and prayer is that all that might read this would experience the same kind of love in there lives. Sad thing is most don’t and won’t. I myself have known people that stated they loved me with all their heart but when I did something to displease them or hurt them, their love was gone as quickly as the wind blows. And they wrote me off as a bad person that was never to be given another chance. Everyone deserves another chance I believe as we all make mistakes. Don’t just open the door for them to hurt you again, but don’t close it either. As you may have close the door to the one person who would truly be there for you no matter what because of the unconditional love you showed them.